The
beginning of the Parasha describes the radical deterioration in the stature of
the Israelites in Egypt. The Torah repeats by name all the sons of Jacob who
came to Egypt reflecting their greatness as individuals worthy to be mentioned
by name, because like 'stars ' they gave off light and made a contribution to
society. Their descendants are regarded as a group, no longer
individuals, but the children of Israel. The Torah then describes
the dramatic increase in their numbers in a somewhat derogatory way – they
became many, swarmed – like 'insects' - conducting themselves
like a swarm of insects and grew enormously in number and influence so the land
became saturated with 'THEM'. They were called THEM – not only a people who
have lost their individuality but they became a people without a name, like
insects. This transition played into the hands of the Egyptians who were
looking for a justification to persecute and enslave the Israelites. The
Israelites began to leave Goshen and began to mingle in Egyptian society. They
were seen as a group and not individuals and so they were perceived as a
threat. According to the view in the Midrash, the king was dethroned,because he
would not comply with the wishes of the people, to deal
harshly with the perceived threat posed by the children of Israel. He felt it
would be bad for Egypt and it was a lack of gratitude to Joseph who had saved
Egypt from the famine. After 3 months he agreed to cooperate with the people
and deal with the Israelite problem. He was reinstated and became a 'new king who
did not know Joseph '.He was no longer willing to make the sacrifice for his
values – showing gratitude and therefore is considered an ungrateful king.
In
order to enslave the Israelites, and oppress them , and ignore the contributions, Joseph and his descendants had made to Egypt, the king
began to objectify and dehumanize them. Even Joseph, no longer had a name..
Once you objectify and dehumanize people, the next step – being cruel to them
is no problem. They were construed as a threat to the country and all evil
including infanticide could be justified.
Moses,
due to divine providence was raised as a prince in Pharaoh's palace. Only a
prince, an individual with great stature could redeem Israel from Egypt. Moses
empathized with his brothers and showed compassion. He began to
intervene to improve the plight of the Israelite slaves as a group. But just as
important were matters of the community – Tzibur, was the plight of each
individual person and here too we see Moses intervene on behalf of individuals.
The
treatment of the Israelites by the Egyptians was extreme, abusive and cruel,
but in certain ways it shared something common with traditional parenting.
Traditional parenting focuses on ' doing to ' the child as opposed to ' working
with ' the child. Traditional parenting seeks to control and manipulate
children's behavior by being contingent, consistent using the tools of control - punishments,
consequences, praise and rewards. The way the child experiences ' being done
to' and love and privileges made conditional on behavior and grades in
school is not a factor. A child's concerns, perspective or how he sees the
world through his own eyes is totally ignored. What concerns the parent is
behavior, not the whole child, the motives, feelings and underlying values
behind the behavior.
The
alternative is to work with the child, supporting his autonomy so we focus on
the whole child and the development of his unique character and potential in
the context of caring community of learners. We can help him develop a love for
learning, discover his unique contribution and connect to God by focusing on
what he does and not on how well he does. If we get rid of judgment, kids can
develop in stature and become leaders impacting on society and God's presence
in the world. Unfortunately the focus is on mass education and trying to get
each kid to fit a certain mold and look the same. The tools of mass education
are the consequences, rewards, praise and punishments and a focus on
grades and competition rather than focusing on developing the uniqueness of
each individual child and making him into a potential leader. The difference is expressed in the leadership of Pharoah or Moses.
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